Proverbs 1:1-9 The proverbs of Solomon son of David, king of Israel: for attaining wisdom and discipline; for understanding words of insight; for acquiring a disciplined and prudent life, doing what is right and just and fair; for giving prudence to the simple, knowledge and discretion to the young--let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance--for understanding proverbs and parables, the sayings and riddles of the wise. The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline. Listen, my son, to your father's instruction and do not forsake your mother's teaching. They will be a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck.
PERSPECTIVES
Pastor Ron Kapalka
Watching ducks must have a purpose of some sort. One might claim it is a part of renewal, a time of getting in touch with nature. Another might see it as a time to learn their habits before the next hunting season. Still another might wish to believe that communication with ducks is possible.
Should you be one who believes that you can talk with ducks, let me just say, “Good Luck.” No I am not referring to any language barrier. In my observation of the creatures, I came to the conclusion, that like many people, a duck would never give you the chance to speak. They quack while flying, while floating on the water or sitting still, and they quack while walking. I did not have the opportunity to observe, but I would bet they quack while sleeping. Sleep quacking, not an unreasonable concept after a seeing that ducks comment on the world about them continuously. Yes, I mean that they never shut up.
I was reminded of a man that I know who is a duck. Well, not literally, but he talks incessantly. There were days that I never even tried to respond. He never stopped to take a breath, never paused in manner that would cause one to believe that he was interested in a response.
It is easy to look at such behavior and label it as poor social skills. However, I think it reflects many other things. Two of those would include a total disinterest in others and a lack of interest in learning anything new.
These represent the sin of selfishness and the pitiable condition of complacency in ignorance. This act of selfishness was represented in the fellow mentioned above. All his stories were about himself. His stories were about his pain in life and his dissatisfaction with it.
The second is represented by a character in Jane Austin’s “Persuasion.” Jane introduces this character in an amusing manner which cannot help but draw to mind those we have all know in our circle of family and friends. I do not recall it all, but it ran in this manner: She was an ignorant woman who was happy in her ignorance. Her mind was a vacuum. Thoughts would come to her about any and everything that crossed her mind and eyes. As a result of the vacuum, the thought would enter her mind and quickly transfer to her lips for she knew nothing to do with it rather than to make a comment about it. She talked always, unaware of it and caring not if others responded.
Selfishness and ignorance bring our lives to either ruin or stagnation. I was reminded of the value of the Book of Proverbs by another pastor who had recently discovered the treasures there. We tend to dislike this book for it gives all the advice of our parents. He said it is like taking an endless road trip with your mother.
But there is wisdom there. There is recognition that one way is better than another. It is a book that can teach much about listening rather than talking; a book that upholds the value of learning.
After all, Solomon wrote for this purpose: “for attaining wisdom and discipline; for understanding words of insight; for acquiring a disciplined and prudent life, doing what is right and just and fair; for giving prudence to the simple, knowledge and discretion to the young--let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance--for understanding proverbs and parables, the sayings and riddles of the wise.” Take time to read it, you may find a saying or two to stub your toe on. There is healing when we recognize our true needs.
Reflect
- Observe your conversations during the day. Can you reflect upon them with peace? Have your used any of those words to praise God?
- Are there words that you would take back? Do you often find your foot in your mouth? Make an effort to speak words of encouragement and fewer words of criticism.